From: Master Scott Palangi
December 1st, 2009
Okay, I have a somewhat embarrassing confession to make, here goes:
As a professional trainer, who’s supposed to be considered as ”One of the world’s best” (by my peers, gee, thanks guys, talk about pressure)… I have a personal, procrastinatory (made that word up) admission to make public:
I love “New Years” and the so-called “resolutions” just like the next American sap!
Yupp. And I love it all!
For starters…
I love the socially-inspired “bump” in new bidnezz’ I receive from the sheer momentum of my fellow procrastinators…
I love the actual New Year’s Eve parties and catching up with old and new friends…
I’ll even tolerate all the insincere kisses (on the cheek usually — so long as they’re all females) with total strangers at midnight when the New Year rings in.
Heck, I even love the A/P’s (after parties) put on by my good friend DJ Tony Mazza (we go way back), and going to the local diner afterwards, sun well-risen, for some cheese-covered disco-fries and a chocolate milkshake, to boot!
And THIS YEAR, I plan to do exactly that.
But here’s where you and I may differ.
And here’s ALSO where you might be able to join me, maybe not physically, but “in spirit” for sure!
You see, I am now “IN TRAINING” for New Years Eve!
And I WANT YOU TO DO THE SAME!!
Listen gang, as much as I love to wake up groggy, stinky, somewhat hungover from the prior eve, and then whipping out my new “day-timer” organizer, and looking at all the lofty goals and ideals I’ve mapped out for yet another successful year…
I DO NOT hit the ground with rust in my gears, or dust on my shoes!
I will be COMPLETLEY ready for the kick-butt partying that’s gonna take place on 12/31/2009 because I am “training for it” as if it we’re a contest!
Usually I do NOT do it this way.
Usually, I stay semi-lean all year long (just in case I gotta take off my shirt like a jack-ass) and then I “bulk-up” (get fatter) around Thanksgiving… then I hit New Years Day pretty hard (just like the hopeful folks who courageously include me in their set of New Years resolutions) and boy do I swing big! I start off with a good ole’ LSD run (long, slow, distance) on Jan 1st… then I do weight-lifting on Jan 2nd… Rock-climbing on Jan 3rd… and so on.
Yeah man, I got it all planned out.
But this year?
I want me and you to do it differently… This year I think we should…. No… strike that… eh-em…let me re-phrase that “should” thing:
THIS YEAR WE MUST FINISH 2009 STRONG!
Here’s why:
I wrote something called
“WHY I MUST FINISH MY 2009 STRONG” and I want you to read it.
It’s based on two commonly mis-used words:
“SHOULD” and “MUST”
And it’s been my experience that… until you deliberately and consciously make all your dusty “SHOULD’S” into aggressive, inspired, hell-bent-on-achieving “MUSTS”…. YOUR’RE FOOLING YOURSELF!!
Now, remember how I said “I love all the new faces I get to meet on, and because of, “New Years”? Well, coupled with this blessing… is what I call the momentous “downside” of it all…. That is: the thing that causes many (certainly not all) of the newbies to attend my class in the first place:
BAD HABITS.
I’m not judging here. Not at all.
However, in between all of your a SHOULDs and all of your MUSTs is a small, commonly-overlooked space. Within this space, lies a void that I call a GHO (Good Habit Opportunities) and…. Although you may think that your SHOULDS aren’t costing you because they’re merely sitting on an ambitious “someday/maybe” list, I’m telling you otherwise.
See, as I write this to you this morning… to my left, next to my now cold coffee, is a greasy plate of post-Thanksgiving food (yupp yupp, had it for breakfast. Don’t tell me about an eating disorder, I’m fully enveloped in mine at the moment.) So I’m “one-of-em’”.
The thing is though, I do not plan to…. Nor will I let this, little mini-moment become a habit.
Meaning:
INSTEAD OF SAYING: “Jeez, that stuff tasted way too good, I really should work-out now”… my internal dialogue will be a lil more stringent. Something like, “Wow, that tasted good enough for the next two months… I MUST WORK OUT NOW!”
You see, your habits are more powerful than your intentions, your desires, and your dreams.
Again, in caps:
YOUR HABITS ARE MORE POWERFUL THAN YOUR INTENTIONS, YOUR DESIRES, AND YOUR DREAMS.
And it’s only fair to say that your HABITS OF THOUGHT are equally, but not as important, as your physical habits!
If you agree with the above paragraph, keep reading. But if you’re stuck on some psychological or medical-filled acumen that creates a “Yeah but” in your personal philosophy… well then, forget it… just close this page, go have your jelly doughnut, and keep watching the 2009 calendar count downward, as you deliberately miss out on this built-in, accidental annual “gift” if you will, to positively influence your “brain” into becoming a well-discipline piece of software that can override the “old you”, and catapult you into the potential NEW YOU, right here, right now!
The ONLY reason anyone… not only myself, should make “being fit” an ABSOLUTE MUST right here… and RIGHT NOW, is this:
YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL G.H.O. (good habit opportunity) STARING YOU IN THE FACE… FOR FREE!
By waiting for the external “reason” (Jan 1st lets say) to start something that needs to already be a DAILY HABIT… you are not only adding ONE MORE LOUSY DAY… to an already existing “lousy life”… you are actually building-up a powerful, negative, and even counterproductive set of negative habits that might be TOO POWERFUL to overcome, come “New Years Day”.
Is this sinking in yet?
I certainly hope so!!!…. (keep reading, almost a wrap here)…
Where was I?
Oh yeah!! Okay, so!… To believe that we can go about our lives for the next 31 days… living habitually, mind you… with a lethargic, lazy, and “Hey-screw-it-it’s-the-’Holidays’” approach towards life… we are DOOMED, even fooling ourselves about making 2010 a STRONG YEAR, at all.
IN FACT… to wait until Jan 1st, 2010, to start living aggressively about your mental and physical health, what you’re actually doing is building up one more rock-solid day of “NOT DOING”, and actually RE-ENFORCING the current condition that you say you SHOULD “change.” (And I’m with ya’ cuz’ I am already not 100% happy with how I look naked, and how I feel inside, just from that post-thanksgiving food, either!)
More, okay?
So…. To think then… that we can suddenly and miraculously “wake up” on 01/01/2010 and put on our proverbial “running shoes” and live our so-called “new life”?… Pshh…. it is not only INACCURATE in thinking… its downright childish, immature, and maybe even IRRESPONSIBLE to those who love us….
…. and who count on us…
….and who actually need us to be healthy, happy, and wise… not only on NOW as 2009 wraps up… but on 01/01/2010… and long afterwards!
In short, when the sun rises on Jan 1st, 2010…. WE MUST ALREADY BE IN “RESOLUTION SHAPE”, or… it will probably never happen!!!
That is why, today, after writing this to you, I will put on my “running shoes” and I will RUN… and I will run… NOW!
This way, when the ball drops on New Years Eve, instead of dreading what would normally be a long and treacherous month of “new habits”, we (me and you, okay?) will hopefully be looking around the room of people whom we celebrate with, and we will say inwardly,
“I am already there”
Join me….
Today is the LAST DAY of the ONLY MONTH for you to begin a PRE-NEW YEARS ASSAULT on your 2010!
Come to class!
Weigh-ins happen tonight at 8:30pm!
Write down some “MUST’S” and email them to me…
AS YOU TRAINER I PROMISE THIS:
1) I WILL WRITE THEM DOWN WITH YOU AND PUT THEM IN YOUR FILE…
2) I WILL HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE… IN AND OUT OF THE CLASS…
3) I WILL HELP YOU GET THEM… OWN THEM…. ACHIEVE THEM… AND MAKE YOUR GOALS TRULY YOURS, FOR GOOD….
4) I WILL HELP YOU (finally) OWN YOURSELF…. AND OWN YOUR LIFE…. AND I WILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR MUSTS, AND I WILL DO IT NOW, WITH YOU!
Do this next:
SIT DOWN.
GET OUT THREE, 3 by 5 CARDS.
On the top of card #1, write the word “BE”
The top of card #2, write “DO”… and
The top of card #3, write “HAVE”.
Then, pack that sucker full of goals, desires, and conditions you’d like to be, do, or have.
Don’t analyze as you do this. That kills it! Just let it rip! (I go over a whole process of this in my underground best-seller Be, Do, and Have – yupp, I wrote the proverbial book so to speak, and need to re-read it myself lol!)
This is another wake up call to all of you…. Act.
Act now.
It starts with the 3by5 cards… and ends with you simply dismissing the idea once it’s written. It’s that simple. That powerful. (I even have samples and pics of my office, the way I do it, that I’ll share with you if you email me requesting assistance; please give me a couple of days to get back with you, that’s all I ask.)
I really do want the best for anyone reading this letter. Let that sink in as you search for your 3by5 cards and get the Sharpie pen moving!
Wishing you all the best you can possibly want, and more,
Master Scott Palangi